by Paul Greenwood
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We are regularly on the web researching useful sites, current news, and stories about victims and survivors of Elder Abuse. What follows are online resources that may be of use to the elderly and their adult children or other caregivers. The list is both long and likely incomplete. We welcome suggestions, additions and even subtractions. When we find a great site we will share it here. Do you have a site or story you would like to share? Please contact [email protected]
- Alzheimer's Association
- Caregiver Resource Center
- Council on Aging
- The Ombudsman The Office of the Ombudsman examines complaints from members of the public who feel they have been unfairly treated by certain public bodies.
- Legal Aid Society
- Visitation Guide for California Long Term Care Facilities and Hospitals
- Silver Angels For the Elderly (S.A.F.E.): Our elderly need a voice. There are abuses that go on daily at our assisted livings, nursing homes or by private caregivers. We want to give our elderly, their loved ones, and caregivers a forum to have their complaints and fears about these abuses exposed on our website so that others can be aware of how to address these issues. "We will offer help, suggestions and whatever tools God has provided for us to help address these abuses and make people aware that they are not alone."
- CANHR California Advocates for Nursing Home Reform (CANHR), a statewide nonprofit 501(c)(3) advocacy organization, has been dedicated to improving the choices, care and quality of life for California’s long term care consumers.
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Housing and Services
- National Center for Assisted Living. Provides a more elaborate "facility finder" that factors in cost, method of payment, mobility, dietary needs, activities and amenities.
- Living Your Choice. Living Your Choice helps you find the best senior living options by using a personalized hands on approach. This service is free.
- Visiting Nurse Associations of America. Search for home health services nationwide. Includes suggested questions to ask service providers.
- National Association of Professional Geriatric Care Managers. ARTICLE.
- Homemods.org. Advice on home renovation from the University of Southern California.
- HealthGrades. Comparisons and one-to-five-star ranking of nursing homes, for $9.95 for the first report and $2.95 for each additional one.
- UCompareHealthCare. Free search by location for nursing homes, plus data on quality, staffing and outcomes from government sources. (Disclosure: Owned by The New York Times Co.)
- TheSeniorGuide.com. Search by state and region for all types of senior housing, case managers, lawyers and more. Includes a glossary of industry jargon.
- National Association of Senior Move Managers (NASMM). A not-for-profit, professional association dedicated to assisting older adults with the physical and emotional demands of downsizing, relocating, or modifying their homes.
- A Place for Mom
Caregiving & Health
- National Alliance for Caregiving. Reviews of more than 1,000 books, videos, Web sites and links.
- Alzheimer's Abuse. Alzheimer’s abuse cases are believed to occur in high rates because patients are often unable to communicate their experiences of elder mistreatment or abuse. As a result, many Alzheimer’s abuse cases go unnoticed or unreported. It is important for family members to visit a loved one if he or she is living in a nursing home or assisted living facility. By regularly visiting with elderly loved ones, the family is able to monitor any changes in mood, behavior, appearance, or health that may indicate Alzheimer’s abuse or neglect.
- National Family Caregivers Association. Provides statistics, research and policy reports, tip sheets, first-person accounts, a newsletter and an exhaustive resource list.
- MetLife Mature Market Institute. Reports from a research arm of the insurance company on the price of assisted living, the strains of long-distance caregiving, and the cost to employers of baby boomer employees involved in eldercare.
- Strength for Caring. A site for family caregivers from Johnson and Johnson with original articles written by experts and how-to materials.
- The Alzheimer's Association.
- https://www.mesotheliomaguide.com/. An advocacy organization dedicated to helping inform the public about mesothelioma and assisting patients diagnosed with asbestos illnesses.
Legal and Financial
- https://www.therecoveryvillage.com/resources/domestic-violence/. contains information on how to leave an abusive relationship, how to help a victim of domestic violence, and more.
- BenefitsCheckUp. A search tool developed by the National Council on Aging to determine eligibility for 1,300 benefit programs that help pay for medications, health care, utilities and so forth.
- National Academy of Elder Law Attorneys. Search by location for members of the association. Provides questions to ask lawyers about qualifications and areas of expertise, and a wide-ranging resource list for the elderly.
- Nolo. Do-it-yourself legal advice. Wills, powers of attorney and other documents.
- U.S. Living Will Registry. Free state-by-state forms.
- American Bar Association Aging Tool Kit. Offers a 10-step process for making end-of-life decisions with worksheets, suggestions and links.
End of Life
- The National Hospice and Palliative Care Organization. An excellent search tool for finding a hospice, as well as guides on issues related to palliative care, including Medicare coverage and techniques for communicating end-of-life wishes.
- Caring Connections. Contains of the consumer information from NHPCO and has state-by-state advance directive forms.
- Compassion and Choices.
- Hospice Foundation of America. Information on end-of-life issues, such as pain management. One section called "Caregivers Corner" has links, reading lists and a self-assessment tool for caregivers to analyze their own strengths and weaknesses.
National Hospice and Palliative Care Organization
Global Partners in Care
- Medicare.gov. An all-purpose site with interactive tools for planning and paying for long-term care and choosing among drug plans. Includes searchable inspection results, good and bad, for the all the nation's skilled nursing facilities.
- National Institute on Aging. Describes ongoing research on aging and lists clinical trials seeking participants.
- U.S. Administration on Aging. Brief fact sheets on aging and links to outside resources for an assortment of caregiving issues, including financial planning, residential options, in-home services, case management and the law.
- Caring Today's blogs
- Minding Our Elders
- Our Alzheimer's
- Aging Care
- Time Goes By
- 3GenFamily Blog
- My Elder Advocate
- Alzheimer's Reading Room
What is Elder Abuse?
Elder abuse and/or neglect is an intentional action that results in harm or creates a significant risk of harm (whether or not harm is intended) to an elder (defined as age 60 or older) by a caregiver or any other person the elder trusts. This includes a failure to protect the elderly individual from harm and/or meet his or her basic needs.
The six most commonly identified types of elder abuse include:
1. Physical: This involves burning, hitting, slapping, pushing, kicking, or any other show of force.
2. Emotional: This involves behaviors that damage an elder’s self-worth or emotional well-being and includes destroying property, isolating the elder from friends and family, name calling, or deliberately scaring or embarrassing an elder.
3. Financial and/or material exploitation: This refers to the illegal misuse of an elder’s assets, money, or property.
4. Abandonment: This involves a caregiver leaving an elder alone and no longer providing care for him or her.
5. Neglect: This refers to the failure to meet an elder’s basic needs, such as clothing, medical care, housing, and food.
6. Sexual: This involves forcing an elder to participate in a sexual act in which the elder does not or cannot consent.
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Tips to Prevent Elder Abuse and Isolation
By Kerri Kasem
- Make sure you know your parents’ medical and financial wishes before they get sick.
- Document their wishes on video when they are still healthy or as soon as possible. Gather friends and family in a room. Use any recording device (your phone is a great choice), have them hold a newspaper for proof of date and say: “When I am sick, elderly or incapacitated, if anyone caring for me stops me from any and all forms of communication and/or visitation with my family and/or friends, they should be removed from making decisions about my care IMMEDIATELY!”
- Include the names of important family and friends on video, preferably stated by your loved one.
- Scan the room with your recording device to document the people watching; the more friends and family present, the better.
- Your loved one should also state the name(s) of the person(s) they would want as guardian if there must be a guardianship, and ONLY when they are completely incapacitated.
- Share a copy of video with everyone present, as well as any other family and close friends.
- Repeat these steps with a lawyer when doing your will and estate plans.
That is one preventative step.
This is not a will.
This is just a list of tips you should do for protection.
This is not legal advice.
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